
The cost of following Jesus becomes apparent as Jesus travels towards Jerusalem. Jesus knew the hearts of those surrounding Him. Some wanted a new political kingdom to overthrow the Romans, while others sought casual discipleship, and a few truly sought Jesus as their Messiah.
Luke 14: 25 A large crowd was following Jesus. He turned around and said to them, 26 “If you want to be my disciple, you must, by comparison, hate everyone else—your father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even your own life. Otherwise, you cannot be my disciple. [1]
Love or Hate?
Jesus is known for His command to love. John 13: 34 So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. 35 Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.”[2] Yet, Jesus said in the above verses that to be a disciple, one had to hate one’s family and one’s own life. So, which is it, love or hate? Is there a Biblical discrepancy here?
In the Luke passage, Jesus used extreme exaggeration to make a point. Our love for Him must be so great that, in comparison, our love for family and ourselves would seem like hate. There would be Jewish opposition to following Jesus as Messiah. If people decided to follow Jesus, they had to be prepared for alienation from their families. Jesus was making it clear; a disciple’s allegiance had to be fully for Him.
Carrying a Cross
Following Jesus had to be a disciple’s first priority. Jesus was asking His listeners to either be willing to go deeper with Him or turn back. He next used an image that would have been familiar to His audience, a cross. Roman officials forced criminals to carry their cross to their execution.
Luke 14: 27 And if you do not carry your own cross and follow me, you cannot be my disciple. [3] “What does it mean to “carry the cross”? It means daily identification with Christ in shame, suffering, and surrender to God’s will. It means death to self, to our own plans and ambitions, and a willingness to serve Him as He directs.”[4]
Jesus was not asking His disciples to do something He would not do. When Jesus said this, He was on His way to Jerusalem to die on the cross. Jesus willingly gave up His will to do the Father’s will. He served God unto death out of love for us.
Romans 5: 8 But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners. 9 And since we have been made right in God’s sight by the blood of Christ, he will certainly save us from God’s condemnation.[5] We still need to count the cost of following Jesus. But when we realize what Jesus did for us, how can we not but follow Him? To learn more, listen here:
https://podpoint.com/light-of-christ-church-podcast/the-cost-of-discipleship
[1-3,5] Tyndale House Publishers. (2015). Holy Bible: New Living Translation (Lk 14:25–26). Tyndale House Publishers.
[2] Tyndale House Publishers. (2015). Holy Bible: New Living Translation (Jn 13:34–35). Tyndale House Publishers.








