
Only good things happen when we keep communication open, especially in a conflict or when we someone has hurt us. Proverbs 18: 19 An offended friend is harder to win back than a fortified city. Arguments separate friends like a gate locked with bars. [1] This is as true today as when it was written.
During the recent pandemic, many people had strong feelings on both sides of the issue, leading to offense and a lack of communication. Perhaps you experienced this. I believe this is one of the greatest and most subtle assaults people endured and did not realize the spiritual battle they were in. One of the most important lessons the Lord taught me during this time was that loving others and keeping the lines of communication open were more important than my opinion.
Communication is Key
Relational roadblocks arise when communication breaks down between spouses, friends, or relatives. Sometimes these roadblocks can last for a long period of time, or even a lifetime. In the Middle Ages, the invention of the cannon took down city walls. In a spiritual sense, Jesus has given us the key to removing roadblocks and opening communication: forgiveness.
But remember, each person builds a separate wall. God has given us free will. We can’t control another person, but we can control ourselves. We can forgive and intercede for the other person, and when we do, only good things happen. It may not resolve the issue, but it will remove the chains the enemy is using on you!
This is why the words of Jesus are so meaningful. Luke 17:3 So watch yourselves! “If another believer sins, rebuke that person; then if there is repentance, forgive. 4 Even if that person wrongs you seven times a day and each time turns again and asks forgiveness, you must forgive.”[2]
Love Motivates us to Forgive
Mature believers in Jesus know that forgiveness is more than just words. True forgiveness involves pain because someone has been hurt, and healing comes at a cost. Love prompts us to forgive, but faith empowers that forgiveness so God can bless others through it. Since human nature is fallible, offenses will inevitably arise and can easily lead to sin. God’s people should develop the habit of sincerely confronting these offenses with love and forgiving others when they repent.
Ephesians 4:31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. 32 Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you. [3]
To learn more about how to keep communication open, listen here:
https://podpoint.com/light-of-christ-church-podcast/03battle-11-8-26
[1-3] Tyndale House Publishers. (2015). Holy Bible: New Living Translation. Tyndale House Publishers.
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